HappyTails

I have been in search of a spanking for years. Tried to brat my way into one with my husband but only got the confused "what the hell is wrong with you today look..." of the confirmed vanilla! Years later (when husband had moved on) I did gather up my courage and ask my bf to spank me. There were some raised eyebrows but he did attempt it, but was truly not into it and told me so. I could get him to give me a spank or six but it was always............."Is that enough?" I knew from chats and posts and stories (and how frustrated I was feeling) that it certainly was NOT enough!
So, I moved to the spanking sites, where with some caution I contacted a spanker who was interested. I thought that we had laid the preliminary groundwork with emails and phone conversations but the wires got crossed and the spanking happened but it was too hard and too fast and no warmup! I was left a mass of bruises, and wondering .....What the hell?

But this weekend, I played for the first time with the loveliest man. We had met before, had talked about what I wanted and what had gone wrong with the previous spanker. I was incredibly nervous, here I am, mid-50's, not exactly model thin (okay rubenesque is closer to actual fact) driving 100 miles to get spanked? What was I thinking??
Made the trip and only got lost once that put me 30 minutes behind my expected arrival time. There was some stilted conversation and awkward silences until he realized how nervous I was and spent 30 minutes laying beside me and rubbing my back and bottom and talking with me. The touching helped calm me down, I sensed that there was nothing to worry about. He took me over his knee and rubbed and give me little slaps on my bottom until I was squirming and asking for more! My pants came down about then and he tells me he loves the way I look! Glory be! The slaps became spanks and the intensity grew until I was ouching and yipping, then he would rub the sting away and then start over! He kept the intensity where I could handle it and was even able to use a hairbrush and a belt..............mmmmm leather............... (somehow the hairbrush got "lost" after that spanking and we didn't find it until I was ready to leave, somehow it had ended up in my suitcase, under some clothes). I have always know how turned on spanking makes me but the feelings here were just incredible! I hadn't made up my mind before hand if sex was going to be part of this, but at that moment there was absolutely no doubt!

We managed to get out of bed long enough to make pizza (we were too late for the dinner reservation) and then I got another lovely spanking that shook me emotionally! He was gentle (and not so gentle!) in all the right ways..... left me to sleep in the guest room to process all I was going through. (His bed is a single one) The next morning I was reviewing my 1960's conscience and decided that you only go through life once and that feeling this way can't be wrong or immoral or anything but good! So, it was me sneaking into his bed at 8 am and waking him the best way I could think of! That led to more spanking and cuddling that made me kick myself for waiting ALL THIS TIME! I even got a "punishment" spanking with his belt for being so late that he was about to call my cell to see what happened. Even that was within my limits although just! He took some lovely pics of me after that spanking! I have some marks and bruises and sitting today isn't all that comfortable but I could not be happier! So looking forward to the next time!

I knew it could be like that................

Thanks for the report, sassy, and congratulations on your perseverance finally being rewarded. I hope there are many similarly enjoyable spankings in your future and that the memory of this one will continue to make you feel good for a long time to come.

There is more to this "somehow the hairbrush got in my luggage" story than meets the eye. Were you hiding it so he couldn't use it again? Taking it home so you could use it on yourself, or so he'd have to come to your place to retrieve it? Or did HE put it in there as a surprise gift? What?

You two are lucky to have found each other. I realize there was a lot of effort involved -- it wasn't pure luck -- but effort sometimes goes unrewarded. Perhaps the most admirable aspect is that you didn't let a bad initial experience deter you. You learned from it and did better next time. Well done!

When I read that, I had to put on a track of violins and birds chirping!

Reminds me of Snow White, she always woke to birds chirping. She needed to be spanked too, accepting apples from crazy old stranger ladies. But I rant.

Thank you for the *HOT* post. It's like the perfect spanking love story.

- Marcus

loved loved loved it!

Hi, barbieh; long time no post. What's up?

Not much. I've tried to come onto chat the last few nights and no one was here. What time do you all get on? I'm in central time now.

Thanks Barbieh..... !

I'm sorry you found the place empty. Our core chatters now are 3 people from the Central Time Zone who don't work (me, mgt and Ed), two from the Pacific Time Zone (Rosie and sassy), one from Alaska (yw) and two from Australia (Freckles and shrew). As a result we have gradually migrated later and later; the West Coast folks chat for an hour just before their bedtime and the Central Time Zone stays up late to be with them. For a gainfully employed person east of the Rockies, we may be TOO late.

But, to answer your actual question, around midnight. I thought there might be an "early chat" and hour or so before then, that breaks up before I even get there, but if there is, it obviously didn't take place the nights you tried.

You missed me last night. We had quite a crowd in there including Chris and Sparkle....and Parce...several people. BB. Quite the crowd. I'll try to come back in tonight.